Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Basketball


I finally have a moment to write. It is 12:22 a.m. on an early Tuesday morning and the house is quiet.

My son and I went to a basketball game last Tuesday night. We were given two tickets to go. Unfortunately that meant my husband had to stay home. It worked out though because he was gone all day at conferences and wasn't home in time anyway. We missed him at the game though!

The game was so much fun. This was the 1st time my son ever got 100% into a basketball game. He cheered, he yelled, he laughed and had way too much fun. He wanted to eat right when we got there. He had just finished supper before we left, but to him you had to buy a slice of pizza to start the night off right.

We sat next to a fella who was a chef. We found that interesting since he just finished his dream speech about becoming a chef.

I was so proud of him because he made it through the big loud introduction of the teams and the big flames they shoot out high in the air when the team is introduced. With his Aspergers his sense of fear is greatly heightened and he remembered that he was surprised/frightened by the noise and unexpectedness of it all from the 1st game he was at. I helped him get into a safe zone. We talked about all the things that were to come, he wore his hood over his head (ears), and sat down as I held him close and talked him through it all. He was so proud of himself when it was all done because he knew he conquered his fear of the big noise and big flame. I was so proud of him!

It was so foggy out on our way home that we could barely see a foot in front of us. It was kind of funny because the lights on the on ramp glowed like a space ship. All the cars slowed way down to look. It was wild to see.

I just loved every moment of sharing the basketball game with my son. What a great memory!

1 comment:

Nicole said...

WAY TO GO LUKE! I'm so proud of you for hanging thru all the chaos and noise. I would have been right there with you wearing the hood and probably holding my ears...I am WAY sensitive to stuff like that!

Looks like you guys had soooo much fun! What a fun mother/son date! Thanks for sharing!